Crazy For Feet Forum

What if you're really into shoeplay but your significant other isn't a natural shoeplayer... but she is into your foot fetish nonetheless?

How would you even start to suggest to train her or condition her to the habit? Buy her shoeplayable or uncomfortable shoes and hope she wears them? Show her shoeplay videos and hope she just "gets it"?

Anybody have success with this matter?

They are women not dogs. If they don't do it naturally it would feel forced and unenjoyable imo

Footsiefreak wrote: Tue Aug 26, 2025 4:58 pm They are women not dogs. If they don't do it naturally it would feel forced and unenjoyable imo

Insightful! Thanks for your help, I haven't ever considered that perspective.

women are much more intelligent than dogs. They even understand a language. In case you speak her language you might just talk to her. And when she likes you she will try to do it right for you. and when it doesn't seem perfect for you, you again need to talk and she will improve it.
But don't expect that anyone can read your mind and simply do what you think. And I don't think that shoe play is so difficult to explain. And don'T be a coward just because you think she might laugh at your fantasies!

"women are much more intelligent than dogs. They even understand a language. In case you speak her language you might just talk to her. "

jeez...what a BAD way to start a post.... but I kinda guess you were being sarcastic...I hope.

JohnnyMarvin wrote: Mon Aug 25, 2025 9:30 pm What if you're really into shoeplay but your significant other isn't a natural shoeplayer... but she is into your foot fetish nonetheless?

Ya'll think too hard. The bolded part is all you need. This is a kink like any other, so treat it as such. Tell her what you like, show her some examples, and let her take it from there and see what she comes up with. If she's "into your foot fetish", then you're already ahead of the game! By all means, if there's certain moves, clothing, positions etc. that you prefer then tell her, but other than that don't try to micromanage it or "train her". See what she comes up with and go with the flow. Let her put her own magic and flair into it, but explore it together. Give her feedback, communicate.

I went from having a wife who I thought wouldn't understand my fetish at all, to having a wife who is willing and happy to "put on a show" for me, especially when sex just isn't possible and who also discovered she enjoyed having her feet loved on. It got to where she actually looks forward to the "shows" and gets her own....umm...jollies...out of it. Stop over-pondering, tell her what you like and just have fun with it.

ShoeplayJ wrote: Thu Aug 28, 2025 7:28 amtell her what you like and just have fun with it.

This. This. 100% this.
TALK to your partner. The base of all successful relationships is communication (Speaking from soneone who's soon celebrating a 20 years wedding anniversary with the former Nyllady )