For those of you who think that secretly filming a woman's feet is not a big deal you may educate yourself how most girls feel when this happens:
Candid Shoeplay - The Other Side
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Candid Shoeplay - The Other Side
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paradigm88
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Re: Candid Shoeplay - The Other Side
I think a big factor is that there's really not a good case study for men to compare here, which makes it harder for some to understand.
On a whole, men are far more visually-triggered anyway; I believe science has proven that. We can all appreciate someone who dresses and grooms well, but I think men are far more likely to find that sexy than women are.
Both women and men expect that we will draw visual interest when dressing provocatively - a woman in lingerie, a man in a Speedo. But even a woman in a little black dress is going to turn more mens' heads than the guy in a well-fitted and coordinated suit. For men, there isn't really a casual/daily wardrobe that makes us outright sexier, save for very niche interests (example: women who like men in uniform).
As partialists, we have the advantage of enjoying beauty that flies under the radar, so to speak. But when we step over the observation line, I understand why a woman would be unsettled. At least in a black dress and heels, she's prepared for the gazes and stares. But when she throws on a pair of flip-flops to go shopping, she's not expecting that at all.
And the extra element of filming/photographing it carries the implication that she's being objectified not only in the moment, but for the future...and likely to be spank-bank material. All sans consent, and all in what she'd consider a "natural" state. The general social stigma of feet is just another layer to the onion.
That's something that few of us will ever experience the other way around. Guaranteed that at my last business conference, no women were capturing me from afar on video so they could go pleasure themselves to my blazer and tie, never mind my polo shirt and boat shoes on a Saturday.
Don't get me wrong, I have enjoyed plenty of candid content over the years, and I appreciate those who elevated it above a mere spy shot off a camera across the room. But it comes with its conflict and baggage. My musings aren't to excuse the behavior, but maybe to introduce some perspective.
On a whole, men are far more visually-triggered anyway; I believe science has proven that. We can all appreciate someone who dresses and grooms well, but I think men are far more likely to find that sexy than women are.
Both women and men expect that we will draw visual interest when dressing provocatively - a woman in lingerie, a man in a Speedo. But even a woman in a little black dress is going to turn more mens' heads than the guy in a well-fitted and coordinated suit. For men, there isn't really a casual/daily wardrobe that makes us outright sexier, save for very niche interests (example: women who like men in uniform).
As partialists, we have the advantage of enjoying beauty that flies under the radar, so to speak. But when we step over the observation line, I understand why a woman would be unsettled. At least in a black dress and heels, she's prepared for the gazes and stares. But when she throws on a pair of flip-flops to go shopping, she's not expecting that at all.
And the extra element of filming/photographing it carries the implication that she's being objectified not only in the moment, but for the future...and likely to be spank-bank material. All sans consent, and all in what she'd consider a "natural" state. The general social stigma of feet is just another layer to the onion.
That's something that few of us will ever experience the other way around. Guaranteed that at my last business conference, no women were capturing me from afar on video so they could go pleasure themselves to my blazer and tie, never mind my polo shirt and boat shoes on a Saturday.
Don't get me wrong, I have enjoyed plenty of candid content over the years, and I appreciate those who elevated it above a mere spy shot off a camera across the room. But it comes with its conflict and baggage. My musings aren't to excuse the behavior, but maybe to introduce some perspective.
