Now That The Weather Is Getting Warmer…

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OceanWaves3947
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Now That The Weather Is Getting Warmer…

Post by OceanWaves3947 »

Now that the weather is getting warmer where I live, I am as excited about the shoeplay that I expect to find as a little kid on Christmas morning. The anticipation makes me giddy. I truly cannot wait. This is going to be the best shoeplay summer of my life. I won’t make the same mistake I made last summer, when I got caught recording shoeplay at a mall. I will not record, or, if I have to, I will make sure that my phone is hidden by hiding it in my pocket with only the lens poking out, or putting it into the container in my backpack, so that the screen is invisible because it is pressed up on the inner side of the container, so no one can see what is going on, but the lens can catch the amazing shoeplay action through the holes in the outer side of the container. I also can’t wait for my shoeplaying cousin, the one whom is thirteen years older than me who I’ve mentioned on this forum already, to start wearing flip-flops and backless sandals again, and begin shoeplaying with them again like crazy, as I know she doubtlessly will. I can’t wait to candidly record this same cousin’s shoeplay, as I have tried to do already, but failed, as I have mentioned already in another thread. I might even make an innocent comment about it, such as “You took your flip-flops/sandals/shoes off!â€Â￾ or ask her why she did so, to strike up a conversation about her fantastic shoeplay, and why she does it. This cousin and I have a good, close relationship, and she often greets me by just coming right up to me and giving me a hug, which I reciprocate by hugging her back, when we meet after having not met for a while. So I think our relationship is definitely close enough, and she loves and trusts me enough (and I love and trust her enough), that she won’t mind one bit if I make a remark about what she’s doing with her feet and footwear. I expect she’ll probably laugh about it, and may even think it’s sweet that I care enough about her to notice.

Oh, I can’t wait…It will be such a fun year…😊


notalwaysright10000
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Post by notalwaysright10000 »

"...she. won’t mind one bit if I make a remark about what she’s doing with her feet and footwear."

Yes she will. No offense, but you're not clever enough to go about it with sufficient subtlety. She'll see right through it and be creeped out.
Uh, OK, what should I write here...
Sweet and to the point:
My strong preference is for seated, both-feet shoeplay. Dangling, and shoeplay with open-toed shoes or mules, I'm afraid don't do as much for me.
OceanWaves3947
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Post by OceanWaves3947 »

notalwaysright10000 wrote:"...she. won’t mind one bit if I make a remark about what she’s doing with her feet and footwear."

Yes she will. No offense, but you're not clever enough to go about it with sufficient subtlety. She'll see right through it and be creeped out.
I totally understand your point-of-view, and if I didn’t know her personally, and didn’t know that she very likely is completely unfamiliar with the concept of shoeplay, or that it is even a thing, or has a following at all, I would think the same. I have pointed it out previously when other family members of mine have taken their footwear off and shoeplayed with it, and they didn’t mind or get creeped out one bit. In fact, in the case or one particular family member, it even became a running joke among the other members of my family who heard me remarking on how she often takes her flip-flops off by constantly referencing how she taies her flip-flops off, as well. So, in that case, the family shoeplayer herself did not mind one bit, and the rest of my family followed along and turned it into a running joke to remark to her that she had taken her flip-flops off when they caught her doing so. And this cousin is a lot less likely to know that shoeplay is a thing, or that it has a following, than that family member. She is very innocent, which, I guess, is a big part of why she appeals to me so much â€â€￾ as I know that her shoeplaying is genuinely done for comfort, as opposed to doing it to turn someone on (which I actually am almost unattracted to, as the innocent desire for comfort, and its later being reached, play a large role in my adoration for shoeplay).
notalwaysright10000
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Post by notalwaysright10000 »

Suit yourself I guess, but the more you talk about it the greater risk you run that something will suddenly click, and if it does your family will be creeped out unless they're very unusual people.
You can't talk about *any* ostensibly random thing for long before your remarks cease to look like a random offhand observation and start to look like a bizarre obsession. This transition happens quite suddenly, so I'd advise you not to press your luck.
But do as you will.

Over the years I've seen a lot of fellow fetishists attempt to "stealth discuss" feet and shoeplay with unsuspecting women in neutral contexts like Yahoo answers or on some YouTube vloggers' comments section, and they're usually so artlessly transparent it's cringe-inducing.

It makes me think, Jesus Christ, I want to play poker with these guys. I could use the money.
Uh, OK, what should I write here...
Sweet and to the point:
My strong preference is for seated, both-feet shoeplay. Dangling, and shoeplay with open-toed shoes or mules, I'm afraid don't do as much for me.
paradigm88
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Post by paradigm88 »

notalwaysright10000 wrote:Over the years I've seen a lot of fellow fetishists attempt to "stealth discuss" feet and shoeplay with unsuspecting women in neutral contexts like Yahoo answers or on some YouTube vloggers' comments section, and they're usually so artlessly transparent it's cringe-inducing.
Guilty as charged.

I was one of those types in my online dating days. Knowing that shoeplay would be a big part of the attraction equation, I would find what I thought were subtle ways to work it into the conversation, or probe for an admission.

Naturally, I wasn't trying to be creepy about it. After all, it was only a part of the equation; I wasn't looking to date a fetish model or anything. So I'd work it into a conversation about her love of shopping, or how she had too many shoes. Or we'd bring up our difference in height, and I'd remark about the friend who wanted any boyfriend contestant to be at least 4" taller so she could wear heels. ("So do you need me to be taller for your 4" heels, or are you a flats girl?") I enjoy writing and the art of wordcraft, and by nature I'm not an inconsiderate person, so surely I could be somewhat subtle.

But focus on it too much, or revisit it too much, and you're right, the cliff comes up quickly. "You know a lot about shoes for a guy, lol." Or "Do you have a thing for feet?" Or, worse: "Why do you always talk about my shoes?"

In practice, maybe one or two girls I ever talked to actually didn't catch on. Maybe. If that. And sure, a few were actually into it.

But most caught on, and most weren't.

And for that reason, with very few exceptions, I don't dive too deeply into the matter with anyone I know in person. I know a few barefooters/shoeplayers by their own admission. But that doesn't mean they're turned on by it; it's just a habit to them, with no tie to sexuality. Bringing it up could suggest that I am turned on. And why ruin a good thing? Worse, why out yourself to everyone in your combined social/family circle if they feel uncomfortable?
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