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Confronting The Person Who Triggered Your Foot Fetish

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Confronting The Person Who Triggered Your Foot Fetish

Post by dipsdangles123 » Thu Jun 16, 2016 9:52 am

I am in need of advice regarding a possible situation for me. I am sure many of you remember the origins of your foot fetish and the person(s) who single footedly sparked your interest in women's feet. I imagine some of you had older relatives, neighbors, or teachers etc.

In many cases these catalysts for our appreciation of feet have been out of our lives for many years and the sad reality is there are some we may never see again; which brings me to my point. I recently ran into one of my childhood teachers, the one who first mesmerized me with her prodigious shoeplay and consistent use of nylons in her daily attire. We will be catching up for coffee and I wonder should I let her know how much of an impact she has had on my life/sexuality and how much I adore her shoeplay and feet, or should I just keep that locked away in my recollection's vaults for ever?

I am totally torn, so at this stage, any outside point of view would be helpful.



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Post by Feeture Feature » Thu Jun 16, 2016 1:19 pm

I would only bring up such influences with people from my past if I would be close to dying. I don't think they would want to hear it and it might harm a person's opinion of you. I think it would be much less of an important topic to them than to you. The only exception is I would talk about it if they brought the subject up, like saying, "Are you still looking at women's feet all the time?" or if they had obviously known of the influence at the time you were influenced. I would hope you had other less controversial things to talk about with people from the past.

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Post by llama » Thu Jun 16, 2016 2:38 pm

Feeture Feature wrote:I would only bring up such influences with people from my past if I would be close to dying. I don't think they would want to hear it and it might harm a person's opinion of you. I think it would be much less of an important topic to them than to you. The only exception is I would talk about it if they brought the subject up, like saying, "Are you still looking at women's feet all the time?" or if they had obviously known of the influence at the time you were influenced. I would hope you had other less controversial things to talk about with people from the past.
Agreed....She probably has no idea you were watching her feet as a student and would likely find the revelation unsettling

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Post by Footsiefreak » Thu Jun 16, 2016 3:20 pm

I wouldnt say a word about it somethings are jjust left better unsaid as the cliche goes.

YOu even thinking about telling shows that you feel guilty and thats not the case yoou are not the only one with this fetish. Thats like me telling Mrs Layton/ Cynthia Harris or the creators of the Threes Company footsie scene that you unleashed my foot fetish.

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Post by dipsdangles123 » Fri Jun 17, 2016 9:28 am

Thanks for the advice. I think you are all right. Better left unsaid.

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Post by llama » Fri Jun 17, 2016 8:27 pm

yeah I was thinking of it this way, tell me if it makes sense. If you were a boob guy, and she had perfect large tits, you wouldnt have coffee with her years later and tell her how as a student, her boobs really got you off.

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Post by dipsdangles123 » Sat Jun 18, 2016 4:48 am

llama, you are totally right! When you put it that way, it makes absolutely no sense and would most likely wreck the whole interaction and would also be quite uncomfortable for the both of us. Thanks again for your input. This is why I asked. I'm glad I can get some intelligent advice from understanding like minded folks.

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Post by Footsiefreak » Sat Jun 18, 2016 12:27 pm

Just to share a story I had a crush on this girl in 10th grade I used to sit behind her in class (thank God we sat in last name alphebetical order) So this girl always wore hose skirts flats and would watch her shoeplay all the time.We lived in the same town and she worked at the local candy store.So I would go there and waatch her shoeplay because she kept the same clothes on.We never really talked but she said I was cute but I was so shy back then.So years pass and we got reacquainted on Facebook.So i SAID WHAT THE FUCK let me mention that I had a crush on her.Like I said it was along time aga and shes married with kids so whatever.She was flattered and said OMG that was so sweet...I thought you were cute but didnt know what to say.It was a laugh but I did mention I used to look at her legs at class all the time and laughed it off. I didnt mention the shoeplay thing because I thought that would have creeped her out so didnt speak about that.

Just a foot fetish is just weird to some people I mean if you said to her I used to stare at your legs to this lady she would probably laugh it off .But she is much older than you and your teacher so that respect has to still be there.I mean if you mentioned you had a crush on her that would be cool but leave it at that.

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Post by llama » Sat Jun 18, 2016 3:35 pm

dipsdangles123 wrote:llama, you are totally right! When you put it that way, it makes absolutely no sense and would most likely wreck the whole interaction and would also be quite uncomfortable for the both of us. Thanks again for your input. This is why I asked. I'm glad I can get some intelligent advice from understanding like minded folks.
you're welcome...happy we could help

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Post by stlgamer1 » Tue Jan 30, 2018 8:50 pm

I see this is an old topic, but I would say the same. When I was young, like pre-7 years old, I remembered the act and the event that made me think of feet all of the time. I can remember that event perfectly and maybe 4 or 5 years ago, I was curious and I started to back-track my memory. I found out that the location was real, the event was real, everything about it was real. I even tracked it back enough to find the name of the woman and her email. But then I stopped.

What would I say? What would I do? How would she take it, knowing that her feet gave me a life-long fetish? Knowing that I will forever rate feet based on how close they came to her's? There are a lot of people in America that have no idea what a foot fetish is and I think they would be more familiar if you came out and said that you were gay or bisexual. I just left it there.

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