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Hi, I guess i'm the new girl, & i'm just really curious!
Posted: Tue Apr 16, 2019 6:18 am
I haven't really ever been with a guy who's into feet, but i feel like i want explore the concept? Idk there's this deep curiosity bubbling up in me & i just want to learn?? Lol I feel kinda silly & shy saying this, but i think i want to know how to please a man with my feet
These feelings are all so new >_< i don't know what to do with them lol
Re: Hi, I guess i'm the new girl, & i'm just really curious!
Posted: Wed Apr 17, 2019 4:19 pm
Welcome to the board!
It's good that you're curious; I'd say curiosity and open-mindedness trumps the opposite reaction any time. Truth is, as an attraction, feet are perhaps more multi-dimensional than any other paraphilia. Most paraphilias have a *general* motivation to them, usually relative to fertility and virility. It's wired into us. But feet aren't necessary for breeding, leaving a lot more room for interpretation...and in ways, it seems that no two foot attractions are exactly the same.
And to that end, plenty of people have a total aversion to feet, both men and women. So what thrills one might be totally abhorrent to another.
On this forum, you'll find that a lot of us find attraction beyond the most obvious approach, the footjob. Some like to play footsie. Some prefer to watch footsie, or watch a woman struggle with her shoes. Some prefer bare feet, others prefer nylons. Some have a particular little quirk or tic or behavior that sets them off; others are less choosy.
You may need to start at where your own intrigue comes from. Do you find your feet sexy, or have you been told they're sexy? If there's no enjoyment in it for you, it's going to be difficult to make it enjoyable for him.
And if you have a specific man in mind, you'll have to find out precisely what thrills him, too.
Of course, any insight we can offer, just say the word!