Need some support and help....

[wsrfr]

This may have been asked before but I wanted to ask about it again....

Anyone care to guess how many guys in the world, or at least in the US have a foot/shoeplay fetish? I'm not really talking about footsie with a woman. Just candid (and maybe staged shoeplay) I'm not really talking about normal shoeplay as a part of normal sexual relations..just shoeplay.

I have always felt really weird about this and my friends just plain think it is bizzare. They say "he's into this weird stuff..." I really get embarrassed when they talk about it in front of me, which is not too often because they either don't like talking about it or they don't want to embarrass me. I still like porn and having regular sex with a woman, but unfortunately I don't have many opportunities with women so I seem to have fallen into this shoeplay fetish to satisfy myself in lieu of having "normal" sex with a woman. I'm even too embarrassed to talk about it with a psychologist. This has been part of my life so ages so to discontinue it I think I would probably go on the "hunt" for candid shoeplay; something Iwould rather avoid and also because it is far too time consuming and risky.

Anybody else like this? Anyone care to guess how many guys are so much into shoeplay that it consumes them?

[Dead Parrot]

Anyone care to guess how many guys in the world, or at least in the US have a foot/shoeplay fetish? I'm not really talking about footsie with a woman. Just candid (and maybe staged shoeplay) I'm not really talking about normal shoeplay as a part of normal sexual relations..just shoeplay.

It doesn't matter how many there are, all that matters is that this interests you. Stop thinking about other people and start focusing on what you like, what you want, and how that is affecting your life & goals.

I have always felt really weird about this and my friends just plain think it is bizzare. They say "he's into this weird stuff..." I really get embarrassed when they talk about it in front of me, which is not too often because they either don't like talking about it or they don't want to embarrass me.

Men rib and kid each other, it's just the way we are. But when the shit hits the fan a real friend supports you and guards your back. If your friends won't do that for you then maybe you need some new friends?

I still like porn and having regular sex with a woman, but unfortunately I don't have many opportunities with women so I seem to have fallen into this shoeplay fetish to satisfy myself in lieu of having "normal" sex with a woman. I'm even too embarrassed to talk about it with a psychologist. This has been part of my life so ages so to discontinue it I think I would probably go on the "hunt" for candid shoeplay; something Iwould rather avoid and also because it is far too time consuming and risky.

If you believe this fetish is controlling you to the point of fear or compulsion then you need to see a shrink ASAP. Asking for help is difficult but it must be done if you believe you need to change.

Anybody else like this? Anyone care to guess how many guys are so much into shoeplay that it consumes them?

Again, quit worrying about other people and worry about you.

If you need help then get it. Look, you may be embarrassed about this but I think it's a safe bet that most therapists have heard a LOT worse from patients. Think about it: you're a voyeur for a specific type of non-sexual action. Pretty simple, non-violent and can be done discreetly if you have a plan, keep your cool and are well dressed.

There's plenty more destructive fetishes out there, so keep it perspective.

DP