Your most embarrasing moment(s)?

wsrfr · Post by **wsrfr** » Thu Nov 30, 2006 9:54 am

Do you have any really embarrasing moments regarding your foot/shoe fetish?

I had a "girlfriend" back in the 70's who got a big kick out of embarrasing me about my fetish. I don't think it was vicious; she just thought it was funny and maybe a little odd. We had a somewhat "normal" sex life but I think she had someone else on the side. She was pretty good looking so it wouldn't surprise me. But her feet were among the best I had ever seen. I almost couldn't keep my eyes off them (and in shoes). I was always buying her shoes and sandals that I wanted her to wear. She would often tell her friends about my fetish in front of me and then giggle. I would constantly ask her to keep it to herself. But I guess she just couldn't help herself.

One day she wanted me to meet her parents. I picked her up at her apt and she was dressed in a short skirt, low cut blouse, hose, and high heels (that I bought). I asked her not to mention anything about my fetish and not to play with her shoes at all. She agreed. We had dinner at her parent's house. We sat next to each other. She had her leg crossed towards me, and it showed a lot of thigh. But I kept my hands off her and she did the same. And there was no shoeplay and she didn't mention it at all. I thought I was pretty safe that night.

Then after dinner we moved to the living room. I sat down on the couch, and she sat next to me. I had my feet flat on the floor. She had her leg crossed towards me. Then she started misbehaving. She put her crossed foot (with shoe still on) under the lower part of my leg and rubbed a little. I gave her a gentle elbow, but she just grinned. I gently moved my leg away from her, but she followed with her foot (in shoe). Then she popped the heel of her pump off a little and she knew I would get turned on. I just stared at her, but she giggled. Her parents looked at each other. In the meantime I started to get an erection and I knew I had to get out of there fast, so I started to get up. That is when she said "he has this little fetish.." I got up and said "excuse me" and walked into another part of the house. She followed eventually. I said "how could you?" She said "well they were going to find out sooner or later". I said "no they wouldn't..would you describe sex you had with me?". She said "well...probably not". I said "then what is the deal with you?". She said "oh...I don't know...". I said "well I'm leaving..I'm too embarrased to go back in there". She said "oh..it isn't that big a deal". I said "yes it is to most people". She said "well..." She then said "I'm going to tell them that we have to leave and that we will talk later". I nodded.

This went on for several months until I finally had enough..it was really hard because I knew she would be hard to replace and I also knew that the fetish was unusual and that it was out of control. Still bother me today.

Footsiefreak · Post by **Footsiefreak** » Thu Nov 30, 2006 2:42 pm

Mine is probably when I confessed to some female coworkers that I was into feet.The one said "EWWWW you are one of those guys" she probably told others because I got some weird looks the next few days.

wsrfr · Post by **wsrfr** » Thu Nov 30, 2006 4:53 pm

Yeah..I would never tell a co-worker about my fetish since you probably are around them or have to see them often. I keep my secret to myself. Very few people (women) understand or accept it. More of my dates have tanked because I revealed it. Not anymore.

hiker · Post by **hiker** » Thu Nov 30, 2006 8:59 pm

As has been discussed numerous times, it all comes down to delivery and timing. ..

I would never flat out say ,"I have a thing for your feet", early on in a relationship. The best course of action is to let it come out naturally during intimate encounters. That's not to say that you should grab her foot with wide eyes and a foaming mouth during love making.

I'm sure just about every guy has given their SO a foot massage at some point during a relationship. That is a great start. In every relationship I've had, I've let the girl "discover" my attraction to her feet on her own. I have yet to recieve a negative response from a girl with this approach.

At the same time, I don't offer this information to friends either. It's not that I'm ashamed or embarassed, it's just a sexual nuance that I have.

That being said... Fortunately, I never really had an embarassing moment, nor a girl that chose to exploit it such as wsrfr had. I feel for you, friend.

cwalk · Post by **cwalk** » Thu Nov 30, 2006 10:32 pm

I think that was really inconsiderate of her. I don't blame him I would've to told her to go %#2 her self. I think what someone is into sexually is between them and that person unless they mutally agree. I mean if he would have told her parents that she likes it doggystyle, I bet she would have been pissed. It is obvious that she had a problem with it and didn't know how to handle a guy with a foot fetish, which really is pretty normal even for the freaky 70's. Thank God I have a woman is cool with the foot think.