Is it messed up to record candids while in a relationship?

[JohnnyMarvin]

To some, it might be cheating and a betrayal of faithfulness. However, to others, it's harmless if you don't act out on it, and provides a release that you might not get in your relationship. What are your thoughts?

[istallion]

I think its wrong in general if the other person does not give you consent period

[JWCooley126]

Gray area imo, its like watching porn by yourself in a relationship. I don't recommend it , but don't think there's a clear cut right or wrong.

[rubyred]

Depends on the spouse, if they play along or not.
Mine did then didn’t