@pumplover I can only speak for myself of course, but I am enormously grateful to those who post free content. Despite this, I don't often comment because when I do, I am quite literally typing with one hand. It's just not exactly an activity that's highly conducive to pausing for discussion. By contrast, I'm far more likely to comment (and thank the uploader) on, say, a video of alive musical performance.
My point is, the paucity of comments is probably a misleading heuristic of appreciation. I'll bet I'm not in the minority when I tell you 95% of the time I'm saying to myself -with gratitude- "Wow, what would I do without these guys?".
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Yeah, as far as comments, I don't really care about it. Usually we see the number of likes increase, anyway, so it's all good. Plus, what Usuallyright said, makes a lot of sense. I for one, love the content posted here. I have been for years. I only just recently became comfortable talking about this stuff with others.
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Another memeber on this forum posted a question about whether or not our fetish was "Creepy or rapist-like" and my answer is a whole hearted NO. BUT, it's still important that we do not get the idea in our heads that these videos are being posted for us. THAT IS MANIACAL.
Sex is supposed to be consensual. Would you yell at a girl for turning you down for a date? FUCK NO. You move on. Maybe try to stay friends if there is not too much baggage and you know eachother. But once you get into the mindset that you can just lose your shit over something that involves you masturbating, that's when you cross the boundary. Our sex drives are dangerous to our social lives. We need to get a handle on them. The fetish isn't creepy....the creepy people are the one's who let their dicks lead the way. That is why I don't think we are ever going to be accepted because you can't tell someone not to be attracted to something.
If I say "don't love that girl." You'll tell me to go fuck myself. But some people take that mindset to fantasy and masturbation. They are too confident.
Sex is supposed to be consensual. Would you yell at a girl for turning you down for a date? FUCK NO. You move on. Maybe try to stay friends if there is not too much baggage and you know eachother. But once you get into the mindset that you can just lose your shit over something that involves you masturbating, that's when you cross the boundary. Our sex drives are dangerous to our social lives. We need to get a handle on them. The fetish isn't creepy....the creepy people are the one's who let their dicks lead the way. That is why I don't think we are ever going to be accepted because you can't tell someone not to be attracted to something.
If I say "don't love that girl." You'll tell me to go fuck myself. But some people take that mindset to fantasy and masturbation. They are too confident.
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