I'm 20 and I don't have a girl friend, which means I am still a virgin in actual sex.
But I have had several (accidental) footjobs which felt awesome and my major fantasies are mostly about footjobs instead of actual sex. I watched porns but those can't really get me off, but when it comes to a foot scene I got a erection. I'm beginning to wonder whether I will be too much into feet and lose interest in actual sex, which is completely not what I want.
SO GUys ,please tell me what I'm supposed to do!
Am I a freak or something, or should I go to see a psychiartrist to receive behavioral therapy or sth
Guys, Please tell me what to do
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Friend,
You are NOT a freak.
If this is something that is bothering you, by all means, talk to someone. Consult a psychiatrist of some kind.
But that does NOT mean you need to think of yourself as a freak.
This fetish, and probably any fetish, can be a scary and isolating thing, especially for a young person like yourself. I think everyone who reads or posts on this board has had thoughts like you're having, especially in our youth. And there is nothing wrong with finding a professional to help you through feelings of ANY kind that are troubling or worrisome.
If you are a thoughtful and kind person, then sooner or later a loving relationship will become a part of your life. And your fetish might well enhance that relationship. I know that might be hard to believe, but please try to believe me. I once felt very alone and very ashamed, but those days are long gone. Obviously, I keep my fetish very secret, but I do have someone beautiful in my life with whom I share it.
Be well.
PS--I'm dying to know how you got an "accidental" footjob! That sounds interesting.
You are NOT a freak.
If this is something that is bothering you, by all means, talk to someone. Consult a psychiatrist of some kind.
But that does NOT mean you need to think of yourself as a freak.
This fetish, and probably any fetish, can be a scary and isolating thing, especially for a young person like yourself. I think everyone who reads or posts on this board has had thoughts like you're having, especially in our youth. And there is nothing wrong with finding a professional to help you through feelings of ANY kind that are troubling or worrisome.
If you are a thoughtful and kind person, then sooner or later a loving relationship will become a part of your life. And your fetish might well enhance that relationship. I know that might be hard to believe, but please try to believe me. I once felt very alone and very ashamed, but those days are long gone. Obviously, I keep my fetish very secret, but I do have someone beautiful in my life with whom I share it.
Be well.
PS--I'm dying to know how you got an "accidental" footjob! That sounds interesting.
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Devineluv
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Believe me foot play is a great form of foreplay. If you start foot playing, once you feel like you can't stand it any more go all the way to intercourse. Sex will feel so amazing, although you will prob finish really quickly lol, but the more you do it the easier it will get. Once you have had intercourse it will just make the foot play feel so much better cause you know what it is leading too.
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