Footsie: Shoes Or No?
Posted: Sun Sep 01, 2019 6:32 pm
I think variants of this have come up over the years, but I'm curious for all opinions.
Since my wife and I have been dating, playing footsie has been a thing for us when we're out (privately). My wife is a shoes-off girl as soon as she sits down. That's never been my style.
But I've been thinking of changing to spice up our date nights a bit. For one, even if I know my wife is shoeless under the table, it's not like I can really feel her feet through my shoes. Also, in winter she's hesitant to rub her feet on my shoes because they might be salty/dirty from outside. She wouldn't have that issue with my socks.
I've never been a fan of slip-on shoes for men; I don't think I've ever owned a pair of loafers, and even boots that don't lace feel too loose to me. (I actually dislike the idea of being shoeless in public.) But if it means igniting a little spark when we're out to dinner, I can learn.
For the guys, if you play footsie with your wife/date, do you prefer wearing shoes or taking them off?
For the ladies, if there are any around, would you rather play footsie with a shoeless or shoes-on partner?
Since my wife and I have been dating, playing footsie has been a thing for us when we're out (privately). My wife is a shoes-off girl as soon as she sits down. That's never been my style.
But I've been thinking of changing to spice up our date nights a bit. For one, even if I know my wife is shoeless under the table, it's not like I can really feel her feet through my shoes. Also, in winter she's hesitant to rub her feet on my shoes because they might be salty/dirty from outside. She wouldn't have that issue with my socks.
I've never been a fan of slip-on shoes for men; I don't think I've ever owned a pair of loafers, and even boots that don't lace feel too loose to me. (I actually dislike the idea of being shoeless in public.) But if it means igniting a little spark when we're out to dinner, I can learn.
For the guys, if you play footsie with your wife/date, do you prefer wearing shoes or taking them off?
For the ladies, if there are any around, would you rather play footsie with a shoeless or shoes-on partner?