Shoeplay ideas
Posted: Mon Jun 03, 2019 9:09 am
Guys of crazyforfeet, what are the best/hottest ways to shoeplay/lose my shoes?
Welcome to the forum!
paradigm88 wrote: ↑Tue Jun 04, 2019 12:35 pmWelcome to the forum!
To a question like this you're going to get a million answers, because there is that much variety in the attraction.
Personally, I like it when shoeplay is a bit deliberate. When a woman stares at her shoe before taking it off, or announces "these shoes hurt today," that always perks up my attention. Some will say that takes away from it—they'd rather see shoeplay be completely subconscious or unaware—but I like the admission. It suggests comfort.
I think a little challenge makes it thrilling. Flip-flops aren't shoeplay; they're barely meant to be worn. It's fun watching a girl slip off a pair of Mary Janes or otherwise strappy shoes, particularly if she has to unbuckle them to put them back on. (Or to take one off; it's part of the "my feet hurt" confession.)
What works is what makes you comfortable (and even enthralls you, since you clearly have an interest in the art).
I prefer to be wearing lace up shoes most of the time because it’s always far more satisfying to reveal my foot than it is with flats. Plus there are so many more things you can do with themparadigm88 wrote: ↑Wed Jun 05, 2019 1:13 pmWhat works is what makes you comfortable (and even enthralls you, since you clearly have an interest in the art).
Do you find it more satisfying when you play with a laced shoe (say, your trainers) versus something you don't have to struggle with, like a ballet flat?
Another divergence of preference is activity. Some prefer a girl who takes her shoes off and leaves them off; others like a girl to slip her shoes on and off repeatedly. Obviously it's hard to play with shoes that need help to put on (like a strappy heel).
Another wildcard is appropriateness. The thrill and attraction often escalate as the situation becomes more and more proper. For instance, a girl taking her shoes off on the living room couch is one thing. Taking her shoes off at work, or at a function, is quite another.
So you like the idea of the struggle, too. I've known women who preferred strappy shoes for the same reason; it was more effort to take the shoes off. I loathe laced shoes myself...if only because they rarely result in shoeplay, but most of the shoeplayers I know avoid them for that reason anyway, so it's a self-fulfilling thing.
I love it when girls actually dont always want to dangle, like they try to get the shoe back on while dangling, but it doesn't
Yeah when I start dangling I usually end up dropping after a few minutes cos my school shoes are really heavy lolBishoeplayguy wrote: ↑Thu Jun 06, 2019 3:51 pmI love it when girls actually dont always want to dangle, like they try to get the shoe back on while dangling, but it doesn't
and sometimes even slides further off. Like here My teacher did that all the time. Was so hot! L
Also I love it when girls sit on the floor and play with their shoes.
I enjoy that aspect of shoeplay, the feeling that the girl is not in control of the shoes. Either the shoes are too heavy/unbalanced and don't dangle well, or there's a strap that gets in the way, or maybe they slide around on her stockings too much. Of course, a little complaint ("I'm so done with these shoes") is a nice bonus...
Yeah that’s true, my tights are really thin which makes them slippery, some girls prefer to wear socks over them to counteract that but I like just the tights. I like the feeling of waking with the laces undone so that it feels like it could fall off at any secondparadigm88 wrote: ↑Mon Jun 17, 2019 11:13 amI enjoy that aspect of shoeplay, the feeling that the girl is not in control of the shoes. Either the shoes are too heavy/unbalanced and don't dangle well, or there's a strap that gets in the way, or maybe they slide around on her stockings too much. Of course, a little complaint ("I'm so done with these shoes") is a nice bonus...
Just think how nice it would be with some low-cut flats, especially once they got a bit stretched out from playing with them all day.Elise D wrote: ↑Thu Jun 20, 2019 3:06 pmYeah that’s true, my tights are really thin which makes them slippery, some girls prefer to wear socks over them to counteract that but I like just the tights. I like the feeling of waking with the laces undone so that it feels like it could fall off at any second
Haha yeah I love any low cut footwear. I prefer to play with one shoe with the other one gone or lost cos to me at least it feels the bestparadigm88 wrote: ↑Fri Jun 21, 2019 5:38 amJust think how nice it would be with some low-cut flats, especially once they got a bit stretched out from playing with them all day.Elise D wrote: ↑Thu Jun 20, 2019 3:06 pmYeah that’s true, my tights are really thin which makes them slippery, some girls prefer to wear socks over them to counteract that but I like just the tights. I like the feeling of waking with the laces undone so that it feels like it could fall off at any second
Are you happier playing with just one shoe or both?
There's something about the one-shoe Cinderella thing that's so alluring. Say, when a girl takes off one shoe and sits on her foot but keeps the other on, or plays consistently with one shoe while the other stays put.
I always like to wear lace up or strap shoes, mainly because of how obvious it is when I try and take it off but also because you can do so many different thing with them that you can’t do with heels. At school something I sometimes do when my shoe is off is tie it up as tight as possible so that i can’t get my foot in. Then when I try to put it on everyone can see me struggling until I either give up and leave it there or crush the back and leave my heel hanging out. Of course though I usually wear my shoes untied so that they come off while walking and so that I can shoe play quicklyparadigm88 wrote: ↑Fri Jun 21, 2019 11:31 amThere's something about the one-shoe Cinderella thing that's so alluring. Say, when a girl takes off one shoe and sits on her foot but keeps the other on, or plays consistently with one shoe while the other stays put.
Many years ago I caught a co-worker of mine in a Cindy moment; she was at the filing cabinet next to her desk, with one of her Mary Janes unstrapped by her desk. She was resting her stockinged foot on her shod foot as she filed. When I asked her about it later, she said that the shoes hurt her feet when she stood for a while...but she liked having the extra few inches of her heels to see the top drawers. It was easier to take one shoe off and keep the other on.
By comparison my wife's feet are VERY sensitive to this. If she takes off one shoe, she has to lose the other to be comfortable. If I rub her right foot, her left foot wants rubbings too. She doesn't like strappy shoes because it's hard to take that other shoe off discreetly sometimes.
Haha that’s so me, at school I love to kneel on the seats backwards and then slowly let my school shoes slip off or “accidentally” bump someone with them causing them to fall off then telling the person who knocked them off to pick them up and put them back on my feet. Whenever we do anything physical in class I always end up missing at least one shoe very quicklyparadigm88 wrote: ↑Fri Jun 21, 2019 11:31 amThere's something about the one-shoe Cinderella thing that's so alluring. Say, when a girl takes off one shoe and sits on her foot but keeps the other on, or plays consistently with one shoe while the other stays put.
Many years ago I caught a co-worker of mine in a Cindy moment; she was at the filing cabinet next to her desk, with one of her Mary Janes unstrapped by her desk. She was resting her stockinged foot on her shod foot as she filed. When I asked her about it later, she said that the shoes hurt her feet when she stood for a while...but she liked having the extra few inches of her heels to see the top drawers. It was easier to take one shoe off and keep the other on.
By comparison my wife's feet are VERY sensitive to this. If she takes off one shoe, she has to lose the other to be comfortable. If I rub her right foot, her left foot wants rubbings too. She doesn't like strappy shoes because it's hard to take that other shoe off discreetly sometimes.
I will actually counter this by arguing that I can enjoy open-shoe shoeplay (of course, with some kind of hosiery). The way I look at it, she's wearing an open shoe so her feet can breathe, or because she doesn't like closed shoes. So if she's STILL playing with her shoes, she must really want to be barefoot. That's not necessarily a bad thing.ShoeplayJ wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 12:18 amShoeplay in any kind of OPEN open shoe is usually big no for me (peeptoes are usually an exception), but flip-flops are an especial big thumbs down. I just find them ugly and they leave zero to the imagination in the first place. I liken it to doing a striptease in a thong or bikini. Part of what makes shoeplay so appealing (at least for some), is the anticipation of seeing more (I find this is true, even if these are feet you've seen a billion times). That whole thrill is completely blown if you can already see everything.
This especially. I'm the kind of guy who can enjoy good shoeplay, almost regardless of where it takes place. But it's much more of a turn-on when it happens in a setting where it'd be looked down upon.paradigm88 wrote: ↑Wed Jun 05, 2019 1:13 pm Another wildcard is appropriateness. The thrill and attraction often escalate as the situation becomes more and more proper. For instance, a girl taking her shoes off on the living room couch is one thing. Taking her shoes off at work, or at a function, is quite another.
That makes sense. I can usually do just about anything except for flip-flops. Aside from everything else I said, I just can't get past how ugly they look. I think I said this before, but I liken to a woman with a nice body wearing nothing but a barrel or potato sack. Like, she's gotta wear something, but good God, what she's wearing is so hideous, it contrasts with how attractive she is, creating a weird mesh of "meh". Strange analogy, I know.paradigm88 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 12:54 amI will actually counter this by arguing that I can enjoy open-shoe shoeplay (of course, with some kind of hosiery). The way I look at it, she's wearing an open shoe so her feet can breathe, or because she doesn't like closed shoes. So if she's STILL playing with her shoes, she must really want to be barefoot. That's not necessarily a bad thing.ShoeplayJ wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2019 12:18 amShoeplay in any kind of OPEN open shoe is usually big no for me (peeptoes are usually an exception), but flip-flops are an especial big thumbs down. I just find them ugly and they leave zero to the imagination in the first place. I liken it to doing a striptease in a thong or bikini. Part of what makes shoeplay so appealing (at least for some), is the anticipation of seeing more (I find this is true, even if these are feet you've seen a billion times). That whole thrill is completely blown if you can already see everything.